We had to admit my my mum into a care home last June with Alzheimer’s as my dad has cancer and we couldn’t cope caring for them both at home. We can now visit mum and fetch her for days out.
My question is I am not sure what is best just to visit her in the care home where we feel constantly under surveillance and have no privacy and it seems so impersonal. Where as she and we love having here out for a change of scenery and stimulation. The draw back is she is unhappy when we take her back which makes us feel awful ? anyone else have this dilemma?
My question is I am not sure what is best just to visit her in the care home where we feel constantly under surveillance and have no privacy and it seems so impersonal. Where as she and we love having here out for a change of scenery and stimulation. The draw back is she is unhappy when we take her back which makes us feel awful ? anyone else have this dilemma?