I was under the impression that the new Government guidelines for Care Home visits (8th March 2021) would allow a designated person per resident to have a face to face visit albeit adhering to strict safety guidelines, wearing relevant PPE etc. My Mother has been in her Care Home for 5 years and is in the end stage of Alzheimer's, so I was obviously looking forward to being able to visit her. I have seen her once in the last year via a window visit but this was distressing for her as she didn't understand why I was outside and wouldn't come in. I have been informed by the Care Home that they are unable to provide inside visiting due to the fact that people could come in contact with other residents and that they are shielding until the end of the month. They are carrying out assessments to see if it is viable for the nominated visitor to see their resident in a Pod instead of inside visiting, but say they won't have assessed things until the end of the month. The Home is a large house that only has 14 residents who are in various stages of dementia. I realise there must be a lot of areas for consideration for the Manager and staff to manage and safety is paramount, but I thought safety had to balanced with the resident's need for social contact? Perhaps I am clouded by the fact that my Mum has declined recently and I have a sense of urgency about being able to visit her before it is too late. It would be really helpful to hear of other people's experiences around this and if anyone else has had any problems.
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