Hi everyone,
I'm new to this forum. My dad who is 88 was diagnosed with dementia about 5yrs ago. Its been getting steadily worse since. He still lives at home with his wife,my step mum who is 84, she is his main carer. However his sleep pattern is very hit and miss and this obviously affects her with him usually going to the loo 2,3 sometimes 4 times a night. We've got a good social worker on board and have organised respite care for him so my step mum gets a break. We've tried talking to him about this but we just go round in circles, he's constantly saying why can't I look after him, they live in a 1 bed maisonette. Within half an hour he's forgotten.
I'm looking for advice on how we deal with this on the day. Respite is not until mid July.
Thanks in advance,
Chris.
I'm new to this forum. My dad who is 88 was diagnosed with dementia about 5yrs ago. Its been getting steadily worse since. He still lives at home with his wife,my step mum who is 84, she is his main carer. However his sleep pattern is very hit and miss and this obviously affects her with him usually going to the loo 2,3 sometimes 4 times a night. We've got a good social worker on board and have organised respite care for him so my step mum gets a break. We've tried talking to him about this but we just go round in circles, he's constantly saying why can't I look after him, they live in a 1 bed maisonette. Within half an hour he's forgotten.
I'm looking for advice on how we deal with this on the day. Respite is not until mid July.
Thanks in advance,
Chris.