Hi everyone. Just wondering if anyone can answer my query. Mum went into a care home last week for two weeks respite and this is also with a view to seeing if this will become more permanent soon. I've been in to see her quite often as I promised I would. What I find is that quite a few of the residents are at different stages obviously, but I wonder is it usual for such a mixture in the same place. For instance my mum has dementia which shows itself at the moment with her being very confused at times and repeating herself. She has been quite agitated but that seems to be calming now as the gp has increased her mirtazapine. She has become part of a group of ladies who sit together most of the time and just chat (in their own way). But what I wonder about is for instance one man just walks about almost constantly never speaking apart from intermittent outbursts and yesterday there was an episode where he actually stood and urinated in a corner of the room we were all in. Other residents constantly babble to themselves or call out. Is this the norm to have several different situations together? I know that at times my mum is very concerned at how "poorly" they are and quite unnerved. I just wonder what other people have found in other homes? We have looked at several different ones and this is quite a small family run home.