My husband age 58 is in a care home as I found it extremely difficult to look after him as the AD/FTD progressed. He is now causing big problems for the home as he plays with his faeces, smearing it and throwing it about and urinates wherever he is at the time. The staff try to get him to go in the toilet but are finding it really difficult. I find it heartbreaking when I hear what he is doing. Today he managed to throw some faeces in the kitchen and this has upset the chef. My husband can't communicate and is aggressive some of the time. The home manager feels she has to tell me so I know what they have to deal with. I think she likes to do this as the council haven't paid her the rate she feels is needed to care for him - hate this system of everyone haggling over somebodies care!!It's totally wrong! Fill desperate and wish that I could end his life as there is no point in him living in this state and he would definitely not have wanted to live like this.