My 92 year old MIL with Alzheimer’s has been in her current care home for 7+ years. Her husband (her Deputy) sadly died last year. She has 3 children & currently there is no Deputy (an ongoing saga). Her daughter (my SIL) has suddenly decided that she wants to move her mother to a different care home as she doesn’t want to make the 30 min journey to visit. We live 100 miles away but not at all happy for lots of reasons that she wants to do this. She actually tried to move her mother a few months ago without telling my husband....this obviously couldn’t happen. My husband now has been invited to attend a ‘Best Interests Meeting’. While he can make his feelings known whether in person or via a telephone call (relations are zilch with his sister), our family are pretty upset that the sister wants to uproot her mother at this stage in her life. The current care home is good, my MIL is very much adored by the staff who have been so kind & how can you gauge how a potential move could affect her? I would add that my SIL never once visited her mother in the care home prior to her fathers death.