sorry to bother anyone, my elderly mother has recently (about 6 weeks ago) gone into a care home due to dementia. She is fairly unsettled but has moments of actually enjoying some of it. Anyway one thing I am struggling to know what to do about is, she continually packs up all her belongings in the readiness for going home, which is clearly not happening. It gets me down as I stupidly (possibly) reassure her and during my regular visits start to unpack and put her clothes back into drawers, photos back out on display trying to say the photo frames might get damaged and doctors are reviewing her at the moment, so until that’s done there is no point packing, she acknowledges that, believe it or not, but the next day, everything is packed into bags again. My question is should I continue unpacking or just leave all her photos and clothes, personal possessions in the bags and not worry myself, or should I keep setting her room out to being nice and homely again?