Such a good idea
@maryjoan !
So I love chocolate, and all sweet things - but I turn to them too readily in stressful times, and put on weight.
I love walking and I quite like my gym sessions. I dread them beforehand but afterwards feel more cheerful and sometimes even invigorated.
I love reading.
I love my iPad! Embarrassing! To me it’s my box of delights. Email - movies ... right now I’m using it to track my son’s flight on his way home. Two hours and 32 minutes remaining!
Over the last 15-18 months, I’ve had small jobs done on the house interior, in the hope of making life a bit simpler. It’s been tedious and tiring and expensive - but it’s all done now. I’m slowly letting myself register that it’s actually worked. I love looking at it and reviewing what I’ve had done. The house is easier to look after now, I think. My OH with FTD seems also to find living here a little more straightforward. He seems less stressed and anxious.
But back to me. Like
@maryjoan I’m a researcher. Lately I’ve been writing something up. I’ve less than a thousand words so far, with many thousands to go, but despite the sore back and neck, and the slowness, it can be magical. There are moments when it flows, however rare they are, and then it feels like this is what I was born for.
Another of my loves is clothes. I’ve lately found a good knitter and also a clothing business run by three sisters. They do everything, from design to making up. Their fabrics are sourced from Japan mostly, the most amazing cotton gauzes among them.
Because the runs are so small, and because they like to involve their clients in their process, I feel really involved and it’s a way of being creative without actually having to sew, which I’m not good at. Also, on a more practical note, they bind their seams. Their garments look as good on the inside as they do on the outside, and many are reversible. It gives me tremendous satisfaction to buy and to wear their things.
I love seeing the house freshly painted and I love the garden all “done at once” now we have someone looking after it on a quarterly basis. Our cat is buried under our weeping mulberry tree and I love thinking of him there, in the quiet earth. Our dog couldn’t be buried in the garden but her collar and tags hang with an old horseshoe on the huge Robinia tree in our back garden.
I love the azaleas in flower. We have pink, white, and another which is fuchsia pink, rose pink, and white.
Almost all these things I love are unaffected by my husband’s dementia and by caring for him. Thank you
@maryjoan for reminding me I still have a life of my own, even though I tend to forget it.