Hello everybody,
I am new to all of this. Mum has AD, or maybe Vascular Dementia, or maybe Dementia with Lewy bodies, not sure right now haven't been dealing with it long enough to grill the health professionals, whatever, she's not right in the head to the point where she may be hospitalised soon, (Doctors say alzheimers as a catch-all I think). I'm on my own looking after her (brother and sister-in-law live miles away) and I am beginning to think she is going to need full-time care at some point. Personally I have no problem with this because I have been into many different local care homes recently and some really do seem excellent, however I would like to choose the one she goes to in order to best suit her needs. But what happens when the time comes about money? Do we sell her house? She will be taken into care through no choice of her own, it will be the AD dictating the rules. Or do I give up a full-time job to care for her permanently, then who pays for me to do that as I need my income?
These are probably basic and fundamental questions, but information would be appreciated so that I know what I'm up against when the time comes.
Thank you,
Sue
I am new to all of this. Mum has AD, or maybe Vascular Dementia, or maybe Dementia with Lewy bodies, not sure right now haven't been dealing with it long enough to grill the health professionals, whatever, she's not right in the head to the point where she may be hospitalised soon, (Doctors say alzheimers as a catch-all I think). I'm on my own looking after her (brother and sister-in-law live miles away) and I am beginning to think she is going to need full-time care at some point. Personally I have no problem with this because I have been into many different local care homes recently and some really do seem excellent, however I would like to choose the one she goes to in order to best suit her needs. But what happens when the time comes about money? Do we sell her house? She will be taken into care through no choice of her own, it will be the AD dictating the rules. Or do I give up a full-time job to care for her permanently, then who pays for me to do that as I need my income?
These are probably basic and fundamental questions, but information would be appreciated so that I know what I'm up against when the time comes.
Thank you,
Sue