Hi all
My poor mum has now been moved from the hospital bed as she was deemed aggressive after the hospital failed to administer her Aricept for 1 month and in my opinion was withdrawing from it. They have now moved her to a secure unit. Went to see her yesterday her first day there and I have never been so upset. The MHN told me she wasn't aggressive just frightened. The place was loud and had lots of dementia patients pacing and being aggressive, one lady was laughing at mum saying she can't walk properly and she is dirty ..continually. My poor mum was sedated and her eyes which were focused on me were forlorn, she was desperately trying to tell me something but she can no longer speak and looked bewildered but worse, frightened and desperate. She couldn't walk properly and I was told that she hadn't slept yet because she was upset with the change. I really couldn't help it but I could not stop crying, I held her hand and just wept and wept I couldn't control it. She was just looking at me and I wanted to pick her up and take her to safety. She looked locked in.....it was so very very bad.
I can not sleep because I can see her poor face and I really feel as if I have let her down, abandoned her.......it truly was like ' one flew of the cuckoo's nest' . This can not be humane or decent . Feel like my heart is broken
My poor mum has now been moved from the hospital bed as she was deemed aggressive after the hospital failed to administer her Aricept for 1 month and in my opinion was withdrawing from it. They have now moved her to a secure unit. Went to see her yesterday her first day there and I have never been so upset. The MHN told me she wasn't aggressive just frightened. The place was loud and had lots of dementia patients pacing and being aggressive, one lady was laughing at mum saying she can't walk properly and she is dirty ..continually. My poor mum was sedated and her eyes which were focused on me were forlorn, she was desperately trying to tell me something but she can no longer speak and looked bewildered but worse, frightened and desperate. She couldn't walk properly and I was told that she hadn't slept yet because she was upset with the change. I really couldn't help it but I could not stop crying, I held her hand and just wept and wept I couldn't control it. She was just looking at me and I wanted to pick her up and take her to safety. She looked locked in.....it was so very very bad.
I can not sleep because I can see her poor face and I really feel as if I have let her down, abandoned her.......it truly was like ' one flew of the cuckoo's nest' . This can not be humane or decent . Feel like my heart is broken
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