I'm sure Dad has dementia - he can't remember any recent plans or conversation, his personal care is deteriorating and he is beginning to struggle with money - he ordered some double glazing but it was overpriced and they only did 2 out of 3 windows in the living room. My concern is getting some information about a diagnosis and what to expect. Dad was always secretive and I live some distance away as does my sister, but there is no one else. I've written to his gp but not had a reply. I met the gp twice earlier this year when he was considering a LPA but in the end wouldn't do it as he couldn't remember seeing it before and was suspicious (he went to the gp 3 times over this with the solicitor). The police referred me to a local charity which I am meeting in July (he reports things stolen). I know he was referred to a memory clinic but he can't or won't say what happened. I am aware of patient confidentiality but not knowing what is going on, or even if my diagnosis is right is very difficult. How do I find out what is going on?