I have recently been diagnosed with cancer and will require surgery which will mean 6 weeks of not being able to drive,lift etc. My husband has early stage dementia and is unable to drive or do much to help. I have no children to come and help but my sister says she will. My husband says he won't have her staying and is in comp.ete denial 're his condition. I am so worried about how we will cope if he won't have help. Who can I turn to for help?