My husband is in a care home with advanced Fronto Temporal Dementia. He was diagnosed in 2007 and in 2012 was diagnosed with prostate cancer. The prostate cancer appears to be under control and he is physically fit at the age of 77 years apart from now being overweight. This week he was diagnosed with a large primary ulcerated tumour in his rectum. The thought of treatment such as chemo ,radiotherapy an operation or maybe a colostomy fills me with dread as he his cognition is very poor and he has lost the speech to express himself. I am seeing the Consultant on Tuesday for the staging of his cancer.I would be interested to hear from anyone else who has experienced a similar situation.I am very worried about the future.