I know this sounds really awful and as I write it I feel guilty. I am hoping that I am not the only one that has felt like this though otherwise it really does make me a horrible person!! My mum is 63 and has alzheimers I am her carer. I have a business and a daughter to look after and find it very stressful having the responsibility of my mum too. I have other siblings but for one reason or another some cant help and some wont. I find myself wondeirng whether I want this role or have to have it? I feel extremely stressed and feel that its effecting my own little family! Does this make me an awful person though? Can you almost walk away or because its your aprent do you have to? Of course I want to but Im not sure its physically possible without sacrificing something, time with my child? time with my husband? my business that I have worked really hard for? ??