1st of all just like to say hiy to u all
just found your website
roughly about a year and a half ago both me and my wife sold our family house
to come and look after my nan who has alzhimers as my nan looked after me whilst i was young.
both me and my wife became the main carers for my nan
.
before we came to live with my nan her house was almost in a deralict state
she would not except help from any 1 or money eventualy we perswaided her to let us help her so we moved in payed for new windows/doors/heating/elecric/re plastering /down stairs toilet etc. all in all we prob spent about 90 thousand pounds making her home livable again all money from the sale of our house .there is also a morgage on the house in my name and my nans name
my nan said b4 we moved it that she would sign over 50% off the house to me and leave the other 50% for when she passes away to a higer land this was all done at a solicitors .so as i had a home all b it in writing
the time wich both me and my wife have looked and cared for my nan has not been easy towards the end as we had our first child(best feeling in the world)
but at the same time my nan had got to a state were we cdnt cope any more my wife became very depresed and i found it very hard myself trying to look after my baby my nan and my wife and work i now there is prob a lot more people out there with a lot worse than me to deal with but i cdnt cope any more
so we called on the help of social services and aranged for nan to go into a carehome wich is very nice she is realy happy there
but i am now worried what will happen to the house can the goverment ask us to sell the house to pay for nans care home as i dont think its fair as me and my wife have prob doubled the value of the property by doing it up to make nans life a bit better for the time we were there we have no intentions of moving .jus doesnt seem fair if they can slap a charge on the house if we did decide to move in the future.
the social worker says it is up to the coucil
i have spoke to the finacial services of the coucil and they r saying it needs to be reviewed by there panel whatever that means
any ideas thanks a lot
just found your website
roughly about a year and a half ago both me and my wife sold our family house
to come and look after my nan who has alzhimers as my nan looked after me whilst i was young.
both me and my wife became the main carers for my nan
.
before we came to live with my nan her house was almost in a deralict state
she would not except help from any 1 or money eventualy we perswaided her to let us help her so we moved in payed for new windows/doors/heating/elecric/re plastering /down stairs toilet etc. all in all we prob spent about 90 thousand pounds making her home livable again all money from the sale of our house .there is also a morgage on the house in my name and my nans name
my nan said b4 we moved it that she would sign over 50% off the house to me and leave the other 50% for when she passes away to a higer land this was all done at a solicitors .so as i had a home all b it in writing
the time wich both me and my wife have looked and cared for my nan has not been easy towards the end as we had our first child(best feeling in the world)
but at the same time my nan had got to a state were we cdnt cope any more my wife became very depresed and i found it very hard myself trying to look after my baby my nan and my wife and work i now there is prob a lot more people out there with a lot worse than me to deal with but i cdnt cope any more
so we called on the help of social services and aranged for nan to go into a carehome wich is very nice she is realy happy there
but i am now worried what will happen to the house can the goverment ask us to sell the house to pay for nans care home as i dont think its fair as me and my wife have prob doubled the value of the property by doing it up to make nans life a bit better for the time we were there we have no intentions of moving .jus doesnt seem fair if they can slap a charge on the house if we did decide to move in the future.
the social worker says it is up to the coucil
i have spoke to the finacial services of the coucil and they r saying it needs to be reviewed by there panel whatever that means
any ideas thanks a lot