Hi everyone,
Everyday i notice something new now Mum is not eating her crusts on the sandwich and leaving dinner she chews some of it and then leaves it on the plate is this another thing that happens,also as i said she has a bed sore and i have to dress it everyday,but the nurse said that the dressing should last a week but sometimes i have to re apply it twice a day,the nurse said that it needs to stay on as long as possible for it to start working.Also the nurse wants to refer to Social Services but i dont want it.What can they do i dont want carers washing and cooking and cleaning for mum i am doing it and that is how i want it to stay can i refuse there help. I just dont want all and sundries coming in and out of my house does that sound alwful this is my childrens house to and they want some privacy
Everyday i notice something new now Mum is not eating her crusts on the sandwich and leaving dinner she chews some of it and then leaves it on the plate is this another thing that happens,also as i said she has a bed sore and i have to dress it everyday,but the nurse said that the dressing should last a week but sometimes i have to re apply it twice a day,the nurse said that it needs to stay on as long as possible for it to start working.Also the nurse wants to refer to Social Services but i dont want it.What can they do i dont want carers washing and cooking and cleaning for mum i am doing it and that is how i want it to stay can i refuse there help. I just dont want all and sundries coming in and out of my house does that sound alwful this is my childrens house to and they want some privacy