Hi
I think this behaviour is down to anxiety/fear rather than manipulation (well in my Husband's case anyway). P used to follow me around ALL of the time-he used to get really anxious even when I went to the bathroom.It got quite dangerous at times when I was taking something out of the oven etc. I used to say that we shared the same shadow!
I found this stage very upsetting as P used to be so independent.Now he has passed this stage and appears to be more relaxed. He does follow the carers around in the CH but, bless them, they don't mind as they are glad that his legs are still working.
Take care Dunkery-who knows this stage may pass-and don't apologise for using the word 'manipulative'.
Lyn T
Thank you Lyn T. It is comforting to think this could be a stage that mum is going through. I can identify so much with some of your experiences. Mum often comes out into the kitchen and grasps hold of the cooker when I am getting a meal and last night she got so upset and starting shouting, when I was brushing my teeth and she wanted to come upstairs, even though she is perfectly capable of walking up the stairs but just likes me with her! It is good to know your husband is more relaxed now in his CH. That must be comforting for you. Take care.