Hi
@Norfolk Cherry
Sounds like my day’s :-(
Up, brush teeth & make coffee ... tum de tum ... Carer arrived. Oh good, it’s a new one ... here’s the phone, here’s the book .. Mum has Alzheimer’s please don’t rush her (she hurries & it goes wrong), healing broken wrist, etc etc.
Check everything is ok, make breakfast, walk pooch, load dishwasher, strip beds & load machine. Weed the boarders, check TV right channel, settle Mum ....wedding over, offer drinks etc (NO). Sulks.
Sort dinner. Serve up. Knock on door & evening Carer is here.
30 minutes early. No, it is not ok
Office changed times but didn’t tell me.
Aaaarrrrgggghhhh
Dinner back in oven, Mum sorted in 20 mins, not right, but that’s how it goes.
Dinner. Mum picked at it & moaned about the carers
Walk pooch. Wash up, clean up.
Spent an hour trying to get Mum to go upstairs as she kept saying she was going to bed. Well, blooming go then.
She wants me to get a gardener to cut the grass as I’ve not done it. She’s happy to pay £25 to someone to cut the grass, but it just means she will find something else I’ve not done
I did a year with one short break. Then another 18 months & a disaster break. 6 months later I had a fab offer, but I was so tired & stressed I was lousy company. 2 months later I’m begging to go away again
When you “work” you get a min 20 days holiday (working a 5 day week, that’s 4 weeks) wouldn’t it be amazing if carers got even 2 weeks respite cover a year, be that Carer visits or respite in a care home, it wouId be a real break. Well, I can dream lol