Friday was not a good Dady :-(
I’ve been making myself go out most days, helping a friend or meeting for a coffee, I’ve just said I’m going out. Mum is not impressed at being left for an hour or two, but in fairness she’s generally dozing or watching some rubbish on the TV
Last night she flipped out. Telling me I
never cook for her
Apparently I just cook things I like & she fed up of it. I only buy things for me & there is nothing in the house for her
So the cream cakes, chocolate biscuits, chocolate bars, sweets, milk drinks etc etc etc just don’t count. The meals for the last 5 weeks which can be eaten with just a fork or fingers were for my benefit
I walked out & went shopping. Cooked salmon & made a potato salad & plonked it in front of her.
She then turned on the waterworks & it all came out. She’d seen some of the things I’d had delivered, didn’t know what they were so decided they were all for me.
She apologised & wants us to be friends
This misunderstanding, making assumptions (that I’m wrong) followed by tears is really wearing me down
Big brother got one of my “I can’t stand this” phone calls from me. Bless him, he just soaked it up & let me rant.
Let’s hope today is better. Especially as I was still awake at 04.00 this morning & im feeling like a wet dishcloth