My husband was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s five years ago. He has three “joint and severally” attorneys on both LPAs. Myself, his daughter and his son. At the time of setting up the LPAs we all got on really well but the relationship has deteriorated over the last two years. The time has come when I can no longer manage him at home and wish to put him in a local care home. However, the children want him to move to a home near to them which is a four hour drive away. They are saying that, should I place him in the local home, they will take legal action against me. Can they separate a husband and wife?