Good morning everyone. I am really hoping for some advice as I'm at my wits end! Mum who is 94, seems to have deteriorated very quickly and is sleeping really badly. Wants to go home even though she is still in her own home. Lives on own. My sisters want her to go in a home but I really don't feel she is ready. She really is against the idea and as she wouldn't be self funding I don't think social services would say yes either. My problem is I am getting calls from her alarm people to say she has opened the front door and they can't make contact! I go round and she is dressed and wanting to go home. I'm sorry if this is garbled but am due away on holiday for 2 weeks at the end if the month. I don't mind going round in the middle of the night but I'm worries what will happen while i am away. Mum has one of us in every day for several hours so we do give huge support and I know they are tired as well. Sorry for the ramble but please help me .