my mum was diaognosed with vascular dementia 3 years ago, for the past 2 years she wasnt bad, but this last year has been hell? myself and my partner moved back in with my mum and dad 2 years ago to help out, but since then its been a nightmare? i/we could see she was getting worse so in january we had to twist her arm almost to get her to see the doctor, again for a memory test, she did badly scoring 6/30, the problem is we have had the social services 3 times now helping, for her to go in daycare for the odd day to give my dad a rest, as he also is recovering from a heart attack last year, shes all for it when they are here, but as soon as they walk out the door she goes off on one, I'M NOT GOING THERE she says so we have to cancle again? her moods have got worse, she takes it out of my dad,
she wants to sleep all the time going to bed at 5 till 9 next morning( i now thats not normal) wont go to see the doctor any more, missing her night pills all the time, we have almost given up hope, we just dont know what to do anymore, every one of us is at rock bottom please if there is any one who can help or suggest anything, or give us advice on what we should do next before we all lose it we would be so gratefull
she wants to sleep all the time going to bed at 5 till 9 next morning( i now thats not normal) wont go to see the doctor any more, missing her night pills all the time, we have almost given up hope, we just dont know what to do anymore, every one of us is at rock bottom please if there is any one who can help or suggest anything, or give us advice on what we should do next before we all lose it we would be so gratefull