I've posted before, short explaination, my aunt has A/Z and we have changed our lives to keep her in her own home, my husband lives with her weekly and she comes back up here weekends, 200 miles away.
My problem now is my husband is going away for a week, we still havent had much luck with the Mental health people, Im going to phone them on friday, a day after the date they promised to get back to me.
I work, she is welcome up here, but becomes totally distressed when left alone, so I cant let that happen. We feel left in her own house, she will be more comfortable..however she isnt going out, Im terribly worried about how she is going to feel. Can anyone out there shead some light on this??? Im starting to think I need to cancel all my appointments and take the cats and go stay with her, but this really means I would loose alot of my income. HELP..the guilt is setting in and I need the voices of reason!
thank you
elle
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My problem now is my husband is going away for a week, we still havent had much luck with the Mental health people, Im going to phone them on friday, a day after the date they promised to get back to me.
I work, she is welcome up here, but becomes totally distressed when left alone, so I cant let that happen. We feel left in her own house, she will be more comfortable..however she isnt going out, Im terribly worried about how she is going to feel. Can anyone out there shead some light on this??? Im starting to think I need to cancel all my appointments and take the cats and go stay with her, but this really means I would loose alot of my income. HELP..the guilt is setting in and I need the voices of reason!
thank you
elle
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