Thank you everyone for your support. I’ve found this forum to be so incredibly helpful as you feel less alone. I’m still in the process of trying to find out if Dad has a case or social worker. I’ve been pushed from pillar to post and unfortunately am getting nowhere. Dads universal credit has stopped as he is pension age but I am unable to apply for his state pension without face verification. I’ve sent various emails only to be told that someone else can help me. I know nothing about fees, funding or his care costs. Apparently he also has a new GP now which I know nothing about. I’ve contacted the following organisations
Bromley Adult social care - I was told my email had been passed to Bromley Community Mental Health Team
Bromley Community Mental Health - didn’t contact me so I emailed in a complaint, they advised me that Older Adults Community Mental Health Team (OACMHT) in Croydon took over the case on the 29th June as Bromley have pretty much washed their hands of us and dumped him in Croydon’s care.
Older Adults Community Mental Health Team in Croydon - advised me that yes they took the case on the 29th June and then they rejected it. The person who dealt with it was now on maternity leave so I couldn’t find out why. They advised me it had been referred to the Care Home Intervention Team in July who had also rejected it. They advised me to call his GP to which I replied that I had no idea who that was supposed to be now. His Bromley surgery emailed confirmation of him leaving them but I’ve never been told where he is now. They advised me the care home could tell me this but I highly doubt it as they couldn’t arrange hospital transport to pick up his clothes or tell me actually how he was when I called in on the phone. They advised me to contact Croydon Council.
Croydon Council complaints department - I’m still waiting for a response, they ask for 10 days and it has been 5.
If I don’t get anywhere with Croydon Council I’m going to leave it as I’m pretty sure they will all be on the phone when it’s time to discuss fees. I had a generic email from the care home yesterday asking about “Residence Finance”. I told them I didn’t know what that was and they briefly explained it’s for cab fares, chiropodists etc. I’m guessing most people would get some sort of information pack when their family member is entered into a home. I have had absolutely nothing from anywhere.
I wouldn’t wish this situation on my worst enemy. I miss my Dad so much and really feel someone must be in charge of his care. What about his meds and his brain bleed? I’m not allowed to see him again as the care home is shut for visitors due to a new Covid case. Do you think a charity organisation would be able to help me or should I just wait until they need something from me?
Thank you all. Xx
Bromley Adult social care - I was told my email had been passed to Bromley Community Mental Health Team
Bromley Community Mental Health - didn’t contact me so I emailed in a complaint, they advised me that Older Adults Community Mental Health Team (OACMHT) in Croydon took over the case on the 29th June as Bromley have pretty much washed their hands of us and dumped him in Croydon’s care.
Older Adults Community Mental Health Team in Croydon - advised me that yes they took the case on the 29th June and then they rejected it. The person who dealt with it was now on maternity leave so I couldn’t find out why. They advised me it had been referred to the Care Home Intervention Team in July who had also rejected it. They advised me to call his GP to which I replied that I had no idea who that was supposed to be now. His Bromley surgery emailed confirmation of him leaving them but I’ve never been told where he is now. They advised me the care home could tell me this but I highly doubt it as they couldn’t arrange hospital transport to pick up his clothes or tell me actually how he was when I called in on the phone. They advised me to contact Croydon Council.
Croydon Council complaints department - I’m still waiting for a response, they ask for 10 days and it has been 5.
If I don’t get anywhere with Croydon Council I’m going to leave it as I’m pretty sure they will all be on the phone when it’s time to discuss fees. I had a generic email from the care home yesterday asking about “Residence Finance”. I told them I didn’t know what that was and they briefly explained it’s for cab fares, chiropodists etc. I’m guessing most people would get some sort of information pack when their family member is entered into a home. I have had absolutely nothing from anywhere.
I wouldn’t wish this situation on my worst enemy. I miss my Dad so much and really feel someone must be in charge of his care. What about his meds and his brain bleed? I’m not allowed to see him again as the care home is shut for visitors due to a new Covid case. Do you think a charity organisation would be able to help me or should I just wait until they need something from me?
Thank you all. Xx