oh goodness MaNaAk im so sorry about their reaction. i did think it would happen but i hoped it wouldnt. the way and what has been said is shameful. that is so cruel after all you have done and cared for both parents but certainly your dad,they really are not worthy of your time and effort. has your youngest brother reacted yet about your condition? you need support and understanding not being accused of all sorts. oh MaNaAk this is so not fair and not the way to help you. they should be paying you for keeping the house going and in a good saleable state quite a part from all the time you cared for your dad. did they take a turn to give respite? i hope they havent made you feel guilty because there are no grounds. you did your best for both parents and should be proud of yourself. you are worth more than what hes dished out to you. please try and have a good day and not dwell on what was said.you give so much support on the forum and think of yourself lastHello Everyone.
After another not so good night I decided that now would be a good time to tell my brothers about my condition so I phoned my youngest brother and his partner answered and I had a good conversation with her.
I phoned my other brother who told me that the trouble with me is that I can only see things from my point of view and that I have been living here rent free. He said he was against dad going into a care home but I put him there anyway. He also accused me of lying but I had always updated him on dad's condition and I thought I had talked him round to dad being in a home.
Anyway the only thing I can do now is carry on with clearing, making plans and moving. All this and trying to keep money coming in during a pandemic. I was afraid of opening my emails but I'm not sure why I am now and I certainly won't pay them before moving because then I wouldn't be able to move.