bobs verble agression is so so bad

Discussion in 'ARCHIVE FORUM: Support discussions' started by bel, Apr 3, 2008.

  1. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    i love him but i hate the illness ftd
    he makes me feel like a quiversy mess
    i dare not speak unless i agree with what he is saying although what he is saying is rubbish
    i try to get him to help with things to make him feel good and he does but
    its this illness he shouts cos he is frustrated
    but i know its i have a break down
    god forbid
    or i will have to hold my hand up and say i cant cope any longer
    love bel x
     
  2. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    69,875
    Kent
    Oh bel, I know how hard it is to have to agree with everything, even though you know it`s rubbish.
    Please try to get some help before you have a breakdown.
    This has been going on for too long and you have so much with Bob and the shop.
    I don`t know how you do it.
    Love xx
     
  3. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    fingers legs arms crossed everything crossed

    i hope i am not speaking too soon
    but bob has had 5 of the anti pscotic tabs and seems a lot calmer
    i dont know if they work straight away or need to get in the system
    i asked him tonight how he felt
    and he said i wanted to blow a couple of times over the last few days i said i know you did then he said i dont know if it was the tablets or me tryimg to not go so mad
    it would be great if it is the tablets i am pining all my hopes on it he is so far had no side affects i have just about coped for 3 years with all that dementia entails but the anger and agression against me i cant cope with any longer
    please let these tablets calm him
    love bel x
     
  4. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    69,875
    Kent
    I hope so bel. I have no experience of them but it sounds good so far. :)

    Love xx
     
  5. bel

    bel Registered User

    Apr 26, 2006
    757
    coventry
    so good so far

    thanks sylia
    i would be really over joyed if they work
    cos
    i love the old bob
    but hate this new one
    love bel x
     
  6. TinaT

    TinaT Registered User

    Sep 27, 2006
    7,095
    Bolton
    I'll be hoping for your sake that the tablets work. If not, then you must get help even if it means that he may have to go into an assessment unit whilst they sort out his medication. You can't go on walking on eggshells forever!
    xxTinaT
     
  7. Skye

    Skye Registered User

    Aug 29, 2006
    17,000
    SW Scotland
    Hope they work, bel. Good news so far.:)

    Love,
     
  8. hendy

    hendy Registered User

    Feb 20, 2008
    506
    West Yorkshire
    Dear Bel
    I'm glad for you and Bob that the tablets seem to be working. They might take a while to have full effect about 2/3 weeks). I hope they do improve things for you both. If there are any problems or you are worried, speak to the Doc again, because they will be able to find others that work as well. So the situation will be lots better.
    take care
    hendy
     

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