blog - what not to say to someone with dementia

[Shedrech]

What not to say to somebody with dementia

Words can be helpful and uplifting, but also hurtful and frustrating depending on the situation. Here, we look at some words and questions to try to avoid when talking to a person with dementia.

www.alzheimers.org.uk

lots of discussions from carers after the blog article

 

[nae sporran]

Number 2, don't say "I just told you that" is something I do say too often. After caring for someone with dementia we should all be so patient in every other situation.

 

[jennifer1967]

that you are having a dementia moment when they forget. my neighbour has said it and its hurtful. do i have to keep repeating myself is one ive used more than i should.

 

[MaNaAk]

I found it a learning curve and I want to say never utter the word 'Alzheimers' in front of a PWD. Also when leaving a care home or day centre never say goodbye but try to disappear when they are occupied.

MaNaAk