I posted a while ago,re concerns of my OH.....who,although has had no official diagnosis,,i felt was not acting quite right....i did have a few replies from good folk,who suggested FTD.....well,i have not acted upon it,left things to roll...anyway,the latest is,,his mum is quite poorly,been taken into hospital,because,she has had a series of falls,on one occasion,been on the floor all night,unable to get into bed,or otherwise,,,,,,,,anyway,the carer,called,a few days later,she was again on the floor,and,so was admitted to hospital. He (OH)....has made no moves to go and visit her,and has said to his brother,his driving is not up to scratch,so cant go to visit (even though,i have said trains are available)..i am at the stage ,where i am having to nag him,to phone the hospital,,to check how she is............surely this is not normal ?..if it were one of my parents in hospital,i would be visiting right away.......he just turns on the tv,and watches films,,,and does not seem to have any worries about his aged mother in hospital,never mentions her,or any worries he may have. I just find this behaviour totally abnormal........again,the ever eternal question.....is It Just Me ??.....or do i have a budding dementia problem on my hands ??