As most of you know, I've been having a lot of interesting times with my mother over the last few months. She is finally settling in somewhat, with loss of mobility and much else but at least she's a little happier.
It was her 70th birthday this past Saturday & I found myself standing in front of the card rack crying because all the sentiments expressed in the cards refer to a person who is here with us mentally & can appreciate the sentiments. I finally managed to find a card that wasn't so blatantly about the here and now.
She did seem to like the card - she kept holding it & turning it over. However. she had no idea that it was her birthday but really enjoyed the cake but didn't much care for the toothbrushing session (punching & swearing, trying to scratch etc - but that I can handle) that followed.
Is it me or do nursing home personnel never brush the teeth of difficult residents? Then I get notes from the dentist who comes in saying "Make sure Doris brushes her teeth twice a day". How do they possibly expect a woman who doesn't know her family, is in a diaper & wheelchair & can't handle utensils to brush her teeth????? It really irritates.
By the by, we paid the equivalent of *£1,700 for her wheelchair & the only time I was ever contacted by the occupational therapist or the salesman was when they wanted a cheque. But that's another rant...
I haven't been around TP much because I'm so mentally tired. I get home & often crawl into bed around 7:30 or 8:00 simply to watch TV or read. I've browsed but I'm just so tired. You know how it is.
Joanne
It was her 70th birthday this past Saturday & I found myself standing in front of the card rack crying because all the sentiments expressed in the cards refer to a person who is here with us mentally & can appreciate the sentiments. I finally managed to find a card that wasn't so blatantly about the here and now.
She did seem to like the card - she kept holding it & turning it over. However. she had no idea that it was her birthday but really enjoyed the cake but didn't much care for the toothbrushing session (punching & swearing, trying to scratch etc - but that I can handle) that followed.
Is it me or do nursing home personnel never brush the teeth of difficult residents? Then I get notes from the dentist who comes in saying "Make sure Doris brushes her teeth twice a day". How do they possibly expect a woman who doesn't know her family, is in a diaper & wheelchair & can't handle utensils to brush her teeth????? It really irritates.
By the by, we paid the equivalent of *£1,700 for her wheelchair & the only time I was ever contacted by the occupational therapist or the salesman was when they wanted a cheque. But that's another rant...
I haven't been around TP much because I'm so mentally tired. I get home & often crawl into bed around 7:30 or 8:00 simply to watch TV or read. I've browsed but I'm just so tired. You know how it is.
Joanne