The problems carry on. No more legal stuff thank goodness.
I am very concerned about seeing Mum by myself after what I've been through, so with that in mind I saw Social Services yesterday with a view to moving mum to another home.
To put it bluntly they said they'd be very reluctant to move mum cos as far as they are concerned she is settled and seems to be getting cared for well. I understand that.
They also said that moving her could start a rapid decline, so what do i do?
If I move mum I could hasten her death, but I can't visit her where she is because I can't trust the staff.
Those damn nurses still have an influence on my life!!!
No matter what way I look at it, even if the manager of the home looks at the statements and tells the staff it's all lies, I cannot be comfortable that someone else may think "Good we'll make sure our story stands up this time"
Social services have not said they won't move mum but that would be a very last resort.
I cannot see any other solution to the problem. If I did move Mum, do you have any tips on how it could be done with the minimum of fuss so as not to upset her?
Also I cannot bear the thought of mum spending her last days in THAT PLACE. It makes me so angry. I want her in a better home. It's so drab!
HELP!!!!!!!
I am very concerned about seeing Mum by myself after what I've been through, so with that in mind I saw Social Services yesterday with a view to moving mum to another home.
To put it bluntly they said they'd be very reluctant to move mum cos as far as they are concerned she is settled and seems to be getting cared for well. I understand that.
They also said that moving her could start a rapid decline, so what do i do?
If I move mum I could hasten her death, but I can't visit her where she is because I can't trust the staff.
Those damn nurses still have an influence on my life!!!
No matter what way I look at it, even if the manager of the home looks at the statements and tells the staff it's all lies, I cannot be comfortable that someone else may think "Good we'll make sure our story stands up this time"
Social services have not said they won't move mum but that would be a very last resort.
I cannot see any other solution to the problem. If I did move Mum, do you have any tips on how it could be done with the minimum of fuss so as not to upset her?
Also I cannot bear the thought of mum spending her last days in THAT PLACE. It makes me so angry. I want her in a better home. It's so drab!
HELP!!!!!!!
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