As I now live alone and rarely see anyone. There is much time to reflect as I retrace the paths of a most unusual and unbelievable life. There's a saying; "Better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all", I find difficult to understand or come to terms with. If one had never experienced love in their lives, might they have been spared the pain and heartbreak endured at the loss of the love that entered their lives? Sorry if this offends anyone as I don't mean to. Just wondering if there are any others who had no concept of what love meant, till it unexpectedly entered their lives.