this is my first post on here as i have only just managed to find the forum and read through some of the posts.
My dad of 85 has always cared for my mum with Alzheimers with help from me on a daily basis. My lovely dad sadly passed away a few days ago so as now an only child (my brother died 2yrs ago) i have had to move into mums to look after her. This happened 4wks ago when dad went into hospital. I am married and have a daughter who lives with us of 23 and a son who lives in london. I have not even processed yet that my dad has gone as i am so wrapped up in caring for my mum.
I am feeling a little overwhelmed how long this could go on for. Mum is familiar with her surroundings in her own house but its not my hime and hasnt been for the past 30yrs.
What on earth do i do and how do i start to change things when she doesn’t properly understand that she has lost her husband. I am sat in her house with her in bed while my husband and daughter are sat in our home without me. I am feeling completely alone.
My dad of 85 has always cared for my mum with Alzheimers with help from me on a daily basis. My lovely dad sadly passed away a few days ago so as now an only child (my brother died 2yrs ago) i have had to move into mums to look after her. This happened 4wks ago when dad went into hospital. I am married and have a daughter who lives with us of 23 and a son who lives in london. I have not even processed yet that my dad has gone as i am so wrapped up in caring for my mum.
I am feeling a little overwhelmed how long this could go on for. Mum is familiar with her surroundings in her own house but its not my hime and hasnt been for the past 30yrs.
What on earth do i do and how do i start to change things when she doesn’t properly understand that she has lost her husband. I am sat in her house with her in bed while my husband and daughter are sat in our home without me. I am feeling completely alone.