Hi
I am new to this website owing to the fact that my Dad has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimers (early to mid stages). My brother & I have known for probably more than 2 years what was wrong but have had a struggle getting a diagnosis, mainly because Dad has an incredible brain which up to now has over ridden his problems. Lately however, all his coping strategies have crumbled and he is deteriorating quite rapidly.
Dad lives alone (my Mum died almost 15 years ago) and has lost the ability to do some of the very basic things needed to look after himself. (I know I do not need to explain this to anyone reading.) Most days we find him sitting in the dark with his curtains closed because he often cannot differentiate between night and day. Our problem is that he will not admit to this and refuses any outside help because 'there is nothing wrong with me'! We would very much like to involve a Care Manager as suggested by his Consultant but cannot find a way in.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to how we can introduce this sort of support for him (and us). My brother & I are working and worry constantly that we are unable to give him enough of our time. I would be so grateful to hear how others have overcome what must be a common problem.
Thank you for listening and for the website, which I have found inspiring. However, it makes me realise that we definately are at the beginning of a long road!!
Rosi
I am new to this website owing to the fact that my Dad has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimers (early to mid stages). My brother & I have known for probably more than 2 years what was wrong but have had a struggle getting a diagnosis, mainly because Dad has an incredible brain which up to now has over ridden his problems. Lately however, all his coping strategies have crumbled and he is deteriorating quite rapidly.
Dad lives alone (my Mum died almost 15 years ago) and has lost the ability to do some of the very basic things needed to look after himself. (I know I do not need to explain this to anyone reading.) Most days we find him sitting in the dark with his curtains closed because he often cannot differentiate between night and day. Our problem is that he will not admit to this and refuses any outside help because 'there is nothing wrong with me'! We would very much like to involve a Care Manager as suggested by his Consultant but cannot find a way in.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to how we can introduce this sort of support for him (and us). My brother & I are working and worry constantly that we are unable to give him enough of our time. I would be so grateful to hear how others have overcome what must be a common problem.
Thank you for listening and for the website, which I have found inspiring. However, it makes me realise that we definately are at the beginning of a long road!!
Rosi