Bent fnger sounds like an overdose of untreated trigger finger - but I am not a doctor. Might be sort out-able without too much hassle via steriod injection, unless it's been like that for too long, but I am not a doctor. Glad things are coming together for you after all the upheaval and worry.
Thanks. Just Googled that - turns out that's what I have with one of my thumbs! Taking Mum to see her new GP on Monday so will bring it up. It causes Mum difficulty holding her fork too.
It certainly sounds like your mum is a lot happier with you! Well done.
Mum seems to be as happy as Larry! She ate a hearty breakfast of mushroom and cheese omelette, then I got her to shower - that's two mornings on the trot! Had a bit of a poo incident that had to be cleaned up - just a bit of a "leak". I need to develop a strong stomach I see.
Then we drove her into town where she chose a lovely new walking stick that she's threatening to poke everybody in the bum with. Also a new pair of slippers to replace the health hazard ones I had to chuck out into the garden. Lovely old fashioned shoe shop where the shop assistant brought loads of boxes of slippers down from upstairs for Mum to choose from. Never realised until now what long, indirect routes you need to take to get anywhere when pushing a wheelchair around town, looking for dropped kerbs that haven't been blocked by parked cars.
Lunch of soup and sandwiches and right now Mum's happily sitting in her armchair, wearing her new slippers, dog at her feet and reading the newspaper. She's even reading snippets out to me. First batch of stinky laundry on the go.
Am having trouble getting enough water into her - she says she doesn't want to spend half her life in the loo. This one's going to be tricky.