Hallo bebee
Well done you for establishing a new thread. I`m still tagging on to everyone else!
So sorry you are having such a difficult time with your wife. It`s such a shock when behaviour becomes so irrational and unpredictable.
I`m finding, with my husband, that it`s best not to get involved in arguements, if that`s at all possible. There is no logic in his discussion, so I`d be fighting a losing battle. Anyway, he`ll have forgotten what he was talking about within 30 minutes.
Also, if I can, I walk away , go into another room and completely ignore him. This usually works and when he calms down, he comes to look for me.
The most difficult thing I find, is getting over the upset as quickly as he can. He has forgotten all about it, while I`m still upset.
You`re in good company. This TP is a life saver. you`ll find many friends in the same position as you. Keep your chin up.
Grannie G
PS I`m not usually as positive as this but today is a Good Day!