i am hoping someone may have any advise for me? My mother has severe dementia and in a care home as we couldn't cope. The issue we have is that the care home cannot bath her either in shower or bath or even with a flannel. She becomes very aggressive and bites, kicks etc, she acts like a cornered wild animal, Social Services has requested the home that she needs 3 or 4 carers to almost pin her down! They now do not wash her and she is getting water infections. We give her Larazapam to calm her but it doesn't help. Does anyone have any suggestions please?