Hate these kind of days.....This may be really jumbled up but have no idea where to start so I'm just going to type.... My mil wants to be out all the time. Even struggle to get time alone with my 12 year old daughter. Today was the normal discussion we have when I go to visit my mum. I took mil out this morn to the shops. We came home , put shopping away and made sure mil was settled. Had to visit my parents. My mum and I worked in a residential home years ago so knew what dementia/alzheimers was and how it affects people differently. And my grandad had fast onset a few years ago, he went from diagnosed to passed away within 18months. This is leading to I thought my mum would Be a bit more understanding. Sadly no, and I really am stuck between a rock and a hard place. My mum hates to see me do everything for my mil. And I feel guilty for spending more time with mil than my mum.and as a mum of a teenager i really do feel it but how on this earth do I split myself ......so fed up.