Thanks..
Yes, our GP is quite good .... easy to talk to ... sympathetic...
Actually, ALL of his doctors and nurses are .. and their long suffering secretaries !!
The in - laws have 'been asked' from the beginning to be involved... and NEVER have.
Right back when he had his FIRST stroke ... and I was arranging for him to come home.. you know how the docs and team 'arrange a case conference' ...
NOT one of them could 'be bothered' to come along and involve themselves....
A LOT ( though not all) ... have seen a lot of the letters from the hospital.... so they really DO KNOW what is going on .... BUT ....
Hay.... nothing is really ' that ' wrong....
MIL saw recently the referral to the BUDDY SERVICE (it's the Age Concern Service for people and their families with dementia).
TOLD ME NOT TO SEND IT OFF
... well... had a call this week... and the co-ordinator is going to be visiting us at the end of the month....
I 'mentioned ' this to MIL .... and there was complete SILENCE .....
(you could 'see the wheels working'....... and I was on the phone !!).......
Then DENIAL ... that I had showed her the referral form .
God help me ..... the next time I see her... what she will say to me / us face to face.....?
She really DOES NOT like ANYONE else being involved in our care....
no carers... no crossroads... NO ONE !!!
Any way,
Isn't it good news about BUDDY .....?
Take Care Everyone....
DaisyG
Yes, our GP is quite good .... easy to talk to ... sympathetic...
Actually, ALL of his doctors and nurses are .. and their long suffering secretaries !!
The in - laws have 'been asked' from the beginning to be involved... and NEVER have.
Right back when he had his FIRST stroke ... and I was arranging for him to come home.. you know how the docs and team 'arrange a case conference' ...
NOT one of them could 'be bothered' to come along and involve themselves....
A LOT ( though not all) ... have seen a lot of the letters from the hospital.... so they really DO KNOW what is going on .... BUT ....
Hay.... nothing is really ' that ' wrong....
MIL saw recently the referral to the BUDDY SERVICE (it's the Age Concern Service for people and their families with dementia).
TOLD ME NOT TO SEND IT OFF
... well... had a call this week... and the co-ordinator is going to be visiting us at the end of the month....
I 'mentioned ' this to MIL .... and there was complete SILENCE .....
(you could 'see the wheels working'....... and I was on the phone !!).......
Then DENIAL ... that I had showed her the referral form .
God help me ..... the next time I see her... what she will say to me / us face to face.....?
She really DOES NOT like ANYONE else being involved in our care....
no carers... no crossroads... NO ONE !!!
Any way,
Isn't it good news about BUDDY .....?
Take Care Everyone....
DaisyG