Does anyone have any suggestions as to a small, but totally infuriating problem we have with my father?
Every time he goes to the toilet for a wee he misses - not just a few splashes, but the whole bladder full ends up on the toilet floor.
We have tried to get him to sit when he goes, but he refuses point blank as he says that he NEVER wets on the floor, it is NOT him and how ******* we dare suggest that it is...We have tried to get him to stand closer to the toilet (so his knees touch the edge) but again he refuses as ITS NOT HIM....!! He is a violent aggressive sufferer and we dare not antagonise him too much else he starts to shout, swear and throw things.
This happens at least 8 times a day, every time we have to wipe wash and disinfect the floor (which we had tiled recently because of the problem).
Its ok when I am here visiting as I grin and bare it, but my mother is crippled with Arthritis and finds it almost impossible to keep up with the cleaning..
Apart from murder (which I am sorry to say I feel like committing at the moment), does anyone know what we could do??