My dad has dementia. Mum was struggling to look after him so my husband and I extended our house and they moved in with us. We are now in a situation where here we could do with some help from an external carer. Dad often refuses to get out of bed meaning either my mum or me needs to be there to look after him. My husband doesn't feel comfortable being solely responsible for my dad. This means that my mum and I are never able to spend any time together outside of the home. I can't take her out shopping or for a meal etc. We have no other family nearby and a lot of her friends have sadly died so she is feeling very isolated.
My question is, if we ask social services to help, will my own and my husbands income be taken in to account for any means testing? On paper we probably look well off but we have two teenage boys and don't want to risk our financial future, we have already hugely impacted our finances by remortgaging the house so we could afford to extend to make room for my parents.
Thank you in advance for any help.
My question is, if we ask social services to help, will my own and my husbands income be taken in to account for any means testing? On paper we probably look well off but we have two teenage boys and don't want to risk our financial future, we have already hugely impacted our finances by remortgaging the house so we could afford to extend to make room for my parents.
Thank you in advance for any help.