I'm feeling very confused and upset this morning and am hoping for some advice and reassurance that I am handling this the best way I can. Mom is 80 and has Alzheimers & Dementia which has gone into rapid decline over the past couple of months.
Sometimes she seems totally unaware of her surroundings, wanting to "go home" when she is at home. She has lived in her present house for 21 years. Myself and my sister (we all live on the same road) have tried to reassure her but she doesn't believe a word of anything we say. She rings us to come for her & take her home. I thought maybe she was thinking back to the house she lived in previously, but it seems not. We've tried to explain that she is at home, all her things are around her, her little dog is there etc but it's not registering with her at all. This seems to be happening mostly late afternoon, early evening, which from reading some of the older posts indicates it maybe Sundowning. If this is the case, are we dealing with it in the right way, is there something else we could do to help her? We both visit twice a day, she has home care 3 times a day. Yesterday I was there 4 times, trying to reassure her, this isn't unusual, some days I'm up & down like a yo-yo!
There's so much more but I'd be here all day! I'll maybe ask in a different post. I'm so sorry to have rambled on. I just feel so hopeless today and a bit sad that we can't do more to help her x
Sometimes she seems totally unaware of her surroundings, wanting to "go home" when she is at home. She has lived in her present house for 21 years. Myself and my sister (we all live on the same road) have tried to reassure her but she doesn't believe a word of anything we say. She rings us to come for her & take her home. I thought maybe she was thinking back to the house she lived in previously, but it seems not. We've tried to explain that she is at home, all her things are around her, her little dog is there etc but it's not registering with her at all. This seems to be happening mostly late afternoon, early evening, which from reading some of the older posts indicates it maybe Sundowning. If this is the case, are we dealing with it in the right way, is there something else we could do to help her? We both visit twice a day, she has home care 3 times a day. Yesterday I was there 4 times, trying to reassure her, this isn't unusual, some days I'm up & down like a yo-yo!
There's so much more but I'd be here all day! I'll maybe ask in a different post. I'm so sorry to have rambled on. I just feel so hopeless today and a bit sad that we can't do more to help her x