Hiya Daisy,
From what you say you are obviously still hoping against hope that your husband will give you some support and understanding, and each time it is not forthcoming, it hurts. Abandon hope Daisy; he is not capable any longer. I seem to remember you saying that he used to be a very caring man - remember that that is what he truly is, and the dementia has damaged him. Do you have any friends that will hold you whilst you cry and give you the comfort that you need. If not, go into a private place, and imagine the arms of your TP friends holding you safe.
You will get through this Daisy. When is the funeral?
Where is it that your family live?
Take care.
Love Helen
From what you say you are obviously still hoping against hope that your husband will give you some support and understanding, and each time it is not forthcoming, it hurts. Abandon hope Daisy; he is not capable any longer. I seem to remember you saying that he used to be a very caring man - remember that that is what he truly is, and the dementia has damaged him. Do you have any friends that will hold you whilst you cry and give you the comfort that you need. If not, go into a private place, and imagine the arms of your TP friends holding you safe.
You will get through this Daisy. When is the funeral?
Where is it that your family live?
Take care.
Love Helen