My 87-year old father has late-stage Alzheimer's (needs help with every aspect of day-to-day life), and has recently fallen a couple of times at home.My 93-year old mother cares for him (and is currently refusing any external help). My concern is that Dad will fall down the stairs. While they have a stair lift fitted he tends not to use it, and is not very steady on his feet.
We've been trying to convince Mum to let us move Dad's bed downstairs but she is refusing, and is also pointing out that he would need to use the stairs to get to the bathroom anyway.
The only option that might work is to use barriers to prevent Dad from accessing the stairs (at both the top and the bottom), but the problem is that the stairlift would make that very difficult or even impossible. Even if a barrier could somehow be accommodated with the stairlift in place, my mother would need to be able to close it behind her whenever she uses the stairlift to go up or down.
Has anyone here had a similar dilemma? Can anyone think of any workable solutions?
We've been trying to convince Mum to let us move Dad's bed downstairs but she is refusing, and is also pointing out that he would need to use the stairs to get to the bathroom anyway.
The only option that might work is to use barriers to prevent Dad from accessing the stairs (at both the top and the bottom), but the problem is that the stairlift would make that very difficult or even impossible. Even if a barrier could somehow be accommodated with the stairlift in place, my mother would need to be able to close it behind her whenever she uses the stairlift to go up or down.
Has anyone here had a similar dilemma? Can anyone think of any workable solutions?