Hi everyone, Went to D's care home today to take him out for a cuppa and a cake. When I got there they said he was having a bad day!!! he couldn't go to the toilet and pull up his shorts, and had needed assistance in other ways. He was listening to my conversation with one of the Staff and he pipes up 'I am homesick' my heart sank as these are the words I have been dreading hearing for the last 6 weeks. I talked to him over a cuppa to find out what had caused this to happen. I also tried to gently remind him of the dreadful circumstances that had brought us to this position and he told me (as best he can as he has verbal communication problems caused by the AD and Parkinsons) that he will deal with this in his own way. Not sure if I should be glad or sad about this. I was considering bringing him home for the afternoon next week but feel this would not be wise. If he asks to visit home should I agree?