my mum had a stroke 2 years ago [she is now 84]and now has vascular dementia.she gets very confused and finds everyday living very difficult.she lives in her own home as she refuses to move in with me so i collect her every day she spends the day with me and goes home in the evening to watch t v and sleep.well over the last week she has got a lot worse she is very confused and seems to spend all her time asleep or staring into space [she has not had another stroke]i cannot interest her in anything..so please any advice as i am now at my wits end i try to get her to do things but she forgets almost as soon as the words have left my mouth...