Mum had heart failure 6 weeks ago and on returning home from hospital I offered to sleep over for a few nights as she was unsteady on her feet, is diabetic and has dementia.... too much for my 88 yr old dad to cope with. 6 weeks on I am still there - she wakes up for the loo , snacks, pad changes etc etc between 5 & 10 times a night. I thought I would cope but am now struggling. I have a supportive husband but I can see the strain appearing. I have 3 siblings who do nothing to help. To cut a long story short I cannot continue with no sleep and then days of medical appointments and trips out. Any advice please - how can I start this off and maintain a good relationship with the parents??