Just recently my husband seems to have stopped cleaning himself after a bowel movement. His trousers are getting stained (I've hidden the light coloured ones) but the worse thing is the smell which is getting into the furniture. I've tried reminding him to clean himself but he tells me he has. At home I've just started putting bed pads under the sofa throws but I'd really like some suggestions about how I can get him to clean himself as he smells. It puts me off taking him out.