Hi
I have recently joined this group and posted into a few threads. As I mentioned in one of those, 6 years ago, I brought my mum all the way from India to Germany so that I could take care of her myself (she has no other children). Thanks to my understanding hubby, we managed to get guardianship for her but she only has a travel insurance which means I pay all her medical bills. This being the case, I had to fly her back twice to India , once for an eye operation. The first time, we managed quite well. The second time, however, she wandered out of the transit hotel in India and was found along some railway tracks after a 3-hour long search. On return, back in Germany, she was disoriented for about two months. On the flight, she kept wanting to remove the seat belt and was quite difficult to manage.
I have been taking some measures in that I give her a double dose of air-sickness tablets to kind of sedate her but can't overdo it due to security checks at every stage. I have been breaking journey in the gulf countries and staying in transit hotels so that she gets a night's rest before the connecting flight.
I am not sure if what I have been doing is the right approach. Unfortunately, as she will turn 80 next year, we won't be able to extend her stay in Germany and I will have to accompany her back to India and probably relocate myself.
I would welcome suggestions on how best to manage an AD patient on long haul flights and what should I actually do. A direct flight from Germany to India takes about 10 hours and break journey flight is about 5 hours each.
I am quite worried now and want to begin my preparations right away. It has been very draining on me - I have had 3 surgeries in the recent past including one eye surgery but had to take care of mum, even as an operated patient myself.
I am now looking forward to some advice Thanks a lot for your help and support.
Sue Stimpfig
I have recently joined this group and posted into a few threads. As I mentioned in one of those, 6 years ago, I brought my mum all the way from India to Germany so that I could take care of her myself (she has no other children). Thanks to my understanding hubby, we managed to get guardianship for her but she only has a travel insurance which means I pay all her medical bills. This being the case, I had to fly her back twice to India , once for an eye operation. The first time, we managed quite well. The second time, however, she wandered out of the transit hotel in India and was found along some railway tracks after a 3-hour long search. On return, back in Germany, she was disoriented for about two months. On the flight, she kept wanting to remove the seat belt and was quite difficult to manage.
I have been taking some measures in that I give her a double dose of air-sickness tablets to kind of sedate her but can't overdo it due to security checks at every stage. I have been breaking journey in the gulf countries and staying in transit hotels so that she gets a night's rest before the connecting flight.
I am not sure if what I have been doing is the right approach. Unfortunately, as she will turn 80 next year, we won't be able to extend her stay in Germany and I will have to accompany her back to India and probably relocate myself.
I would welcome suggestions on how best to manage an AD patient on long haul flights and what should I actually do. A direct flight from Germany to India takes about 10 hours and break journey flight is about 5 hours each.
I am quite worried now and want to begin my preparations right away. It has been very draining on me - I have had 3 surgeries in the recent past including one eye surgery but had to take care of mum, even as an operated patient myself.
I am now looking forward to some advice Thanks a lot for your help and support.
Sue Stimpfig