Hi I'm Danielle and I'm 31. My nan has Vascular Dementia and my dad got his diagnosis of vascular and Alzheimer's last year afer battling for a diagnosis since 2011. To be honest, juggling helping out with my nan (who has mainly lost memories but can get dressed etc but does hallucinate), providing A LOT of support for my dad (who struggles with the simplest of tskst, wanders and gets aggressive), I'm struggling to cope with my mum's depression too. Without sounding self pitying, I'm finding it difficult to cope. I feel like all of my friends are out enjoying themselves, and that I'm trapped in a life that I feel I'm too young for. Is there anybody else out there in Essex in the same boat? X