Hi everyone. This is my first post so hello to all you wonderful folk out there. Can someone help perhaps through having a similar experience? My husband is 62 and I'm 60. He was diagnosed with Alzheimers when he was 57. He has no short term memory. His cognitive abilities are very limited. We usually go out, somewhere, most days. He eats well and often sits with eyes closed in an armchair in our kitchen diner looking out into the garden. I try to get him involved in whatever I'm doing ….emptying the dishwasher, peeling spuds, whatever. He wont hear that he has dementia or Alzheimers so we don't mention by name. When he speaks of 'getting worse' I hug and say whatever is happening in his head we will tackle together. Someone from AS did come around 2 weeks ago to gently explain changes (spoke of disease of the brain) and we both agreed he isn't wanting to accept.
Until very recently he was happy to go to bed around 7.30pm and slept sound until 10am. Things have changed ….. whilst he now says he is going to bed at a similar time he regularly comes down during the evening (in various states of undress). He appears confused, upset (very regularly mostly about not being able to drive anymore and having no car) but also about going back to work, retaking his driving test and then seems angry about someone but I cant fathom out who or what (and I don't try too hard to help here). Rather distract. I offer a hug, cup of tea, reassurance but he invariably goes back upstairs only to come down again in 10 mins.
He recently been diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. He is exactly the right weight for his height and as I said, eats well. Last nights anxiety was its worst and after 10 up and down stairs, I still couldn't console him sufficiently and didn't know what to do. He eventually did sleep but what a horrible experience for him....and me. Can anyone offer help here? Thank you
Until very recently he was happy to go to bed around 7.30pm and slept sound until 10am. Things have changed ….. whilst he now says he is going to bed at a similar time he regularly comes down during the evening (in various states of undress). He appears confused, upset (very regularly mostly about not being able to drive anymore and having no car) but also about going back to work, retaking his driving test and then seems angry about someone but I cant fathom out who or what (and I don't try too hard to help here). Rather distract. I offer a hug, cup of tea, reassurance but he invariably goes back upstairs only to come down again in 10 mins.
He recently been diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. He is exactly the right weight for his height and as I said, eats well. Last nights anxiety was its worst and after 10 up and down stairs, I still couldn't console him sufficiently and didn't know what to do. He eventually did sleep but what a horrible experience for him....and me. Can anyone offer help here? Thank you